Dealing with Children’s Attitude Part 2: When Defiance Is Really Shame, Overwhelm, or Fear of Rejection
By: Rebecca David-Cusani, LMHC In the previous discussion about defiance and assertiveness, the focus was on how some behaviors can be misunderstood developmentally. This conversation expands more on what may emotionally exist underneath some oppositional or reactive behaviors, especially in children who experience shame, overwhelm, rejection sensitivity, or chronic correction. Few things activate adults faster






